Stalking as defined by wiki is unwanted or obsessive attention by an individual or group towards another person.
Stalking from some random dictionary; to follow or observe (a person) persistently, especially out of obsession or derangement.
Stalking according to me ,paying special attention to someone without them necessarily being aware of it.
Stalking at times
tends to get creepy and scares the person your stalking even though
unintentional. so am gonna give you the guide to healthy and scare
free stalking.
1. If you have
decided to follow this path then you might need a really good friend
to talk to about your activities so they can slap you back into your
senses in-case you get out of line 2. If your going to use social media DO NOT use your real account ,create another account ,possibly female if you're a guy and vice versa for ladies. This account will not be used for anything else other than the initially intended purpose.( so don't go posting photos or tagging friends to your status).
3. If you are going to text them don't get creepy ,ask bought something random like whether s/he's got the assignment or memo that you "missed". Don't tell him/her how nice they looked or how you love their colonge. Then ask about their day ,if they don't feel like answering ,don't pressure them. Repeat this ONCE a week.
4. DO NOT “accidentally” bump into them all the time ,twice a day is good enough. don't make it a habit ,they'll notice.
5. DO NOT follow them around ,trust me ,they'll notice. Find out where they are going instead and be there before them so that it'll look incidental.
6. DO NOT go peeping through their windows at night (you are better than that)
7. If they are doing something that requires a lot of work ,offer to help out but don't make it a habit. When your done go back to what you were doing before
8. if you find yourself in a conversation with them ,be careful not to mention anything from your "nightly activities". Do not speak unless spoken to ,only respond to questions asked .if you feel you might let something slip ,make up an excuse and leave.
9. DO NOT give them gifts unless the occasion requires it. Make sure the gift is very plain. Don't go giving them en-scribed jewelery or matching bracelets .
10. DO NOT get caught with photos of them or with their missing items.
Stalking is a very serious crime in most countries, especially if your intentions are to scare or harm the person. If you feel that you are at a point where you cant control yourself ,please seek help.
If you really care about the person ,approach them and be honest ,if they reject you accept it and move on.
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